When I knew I was Psychic

Over the years, I've often been asked “when did I know I was psychic and how does one develop their intuition?”  I am a natural born psychic/medium, but I believe everyone is born with some degree of psychic ability. Everyone is aware of  "mothers intuition". It's a natural ability for a mother to acknowledge, trust and act on their intuition or gut feeling.  The connection of the mother is so strong to her children that an energetic -feeling and channel of communication remains throughout the rearing of children, if not thorough their entire lives.

Children also are very intuitive up to the age of 7-9 years old, but as we age the process of reopening and trusting our intuition can be a challenge for many. This is where the "natural born psychic" and others with psychic tendencies differ. Psychics like myself are born open to seeing, feeling and communicating with the spirit world and remain open throughout their lives. We do enhance and learn to use our abilities, but there is not a process of opening.  We are already plugged into the unseen energetic and spiritual world. This normally always has its difficulties and there is a learning curve.

When I was a child I did not hear spirits talking to me. However, I always knew that I could "see things in the air" and at a young age started seeing lights and orbs in my room at night. I wasn't scared although I didn't know what they were and never told an adult or asked about them. I remember one time asking my best friend, we were about 13, "isn't it funny how you can see from behind your eyes?"  She looked at me like I had three heads and I learned then to keep my observation to myself.

From about age 15, I really became interested in metaphysics and read every book I could find about it. Over the years I became more and more sensitive to spirit and at about age 18, I began doing rudimentary readings for people.  I have studied my gifts and learn to hone them.  My gift was not always easy to deal with in the beginning years and at times was very scary as more and more earthbound spirits came to me, but what a great school! The 100's of hours I have spent directly learning and talking to the dead, the more comfortable I became with my gifts, and felt a real love and connection to those that have passed on.   I found out that they are the same as us, they still love, feel pain, worry, learn, have fun, fear, grieve etc...  all of our emotions stay with us on the other side. We hold our personalities, the good and the bad, when we pass and I feel that is important to understand because I believe that is what keeps people afraid of dying. I feel they think that they will lose their identity, which is far from the truth.

Bottom line we're all born with intuition and it's a natural process. If you would like to build upon your natural born gifts it doesn't have to scary or unmanageable. But I do recommend finding a mentor you trust. Learn for them and with others through classes and spiritual events. But one huge tip, I'm sure online psychic schools and classes have their place, but they don’t compare to the energy of unity with any in-person education program. Along with my readings and healing practice I do offer mentorship, so if you have questions about your psychic journey please don't try to do it alone. Get In touch with me and I will safely guide you in the right direction.   

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My Twin Contact

Twin Flame 

On the morning of May 27, 2012 while still lying in bed awake, I reviewed a very strange dream that included a ghost in a bedroom with the walls peeling back showing layers... dry wall, to wood, to brick to what looked like a casket. The dreams' content, although very vivid in color, was rather a mixture of experiences and people, so I will dismiss the meaning of it here. But I will go on to say that after I had fully awaken the spirit of my Twin Sister who I call Little Becki came to me and said:

“I am your twin. I do the same thing here as you do, but you see things differently than me.

I said, "I know this".  I had been communicating with her for over 10 years prior to this visit and when "Little Becki " was first revealed to me she was only a child of about 7 and I was in my early 40's.   Hence the name I gave her was "Little Becki."

 She then said to me:  "grab a pen" and I began dictating the following from Little Becki .

“we are the same.
we are one.
we connect with others of the dirt. (meaning we work and communicate with those who are on the other side.)

we care what happens.
we assume we are wrong,but that is not true.
we believe there is a God who works in amazing ways.
we want to please him and we do.

Don't forget, I love you.
-Your little twin sister.”

Then later while in the kitchen making coffee a group of spiritual beings came and told me that my twin comes from another universe and she is learning from what I do here. They told me that she used to be evil, and that I would be able to review what she has done when I returned. They also said she is a saint like I am. (being called a Saint by them set me back because I in no way feel that I'm Saint worthy) 

I share this twin phenomena and contact with you because I find it very interesting and unusual. Everything I have researched and read in books about soul mates and twin souls is that they are of opposite sex.   Clearly my twin is manifesting as the same sex as myself and has always come to me as female. I have studied why this is and have gone into meditation to try and garner answers.

The information I have intuitively received about this phenomenon is this:

Humans as a soul group can and do juxtapose as both opposite and same sex split energies of the same soul; I don’t believe this can be disproved.

It is really simple to understand if you are able to push your thought process beyond this realm. We live incarnated on Earth, in a world of many tangible dualities, (such as light and dark, fire and water, and male and female) but why would we need to adhere to this while in spirit form?

  We are not tied down into a psychical body. We can choose our form to be of any shape, sex connected to any lifetime lived here on Earth, another planet or universe.  My spiritual guides have told me that when we are free of our psychical bodies we can be anything and anywhere we would like, as long as it complies with the work of the Divine God Head.  A simple example would be wishing to learn something while in spirit form, finding a book to read about the chosen subject only to open the book and find it empty of words. After communicating with hundreds of discarnate spirits, I have found that there are limitations in spirit just as there are here on Earth and our work searching for answers, growth and well being is not over when we pass from this realm, and in most cases it is only heighted to more of a state of confusion.

However that confusion is cleared as we continue to grow and learn on the other side. Interestingly enough I have been privy to "deaths" happening in spirit.  It is very complicated and I only end this article with this comment:  There is no way to understand clearly what twin flames and soul mates are, where they come from, reside or how they work in the grand scheme of the Divine Plan. The best thing we can do is to understand that we are many pieces of an enormous energetic puzzle. Who's to say we are not spilt a thousand times over and a million more? I believe that we are all split from one single source and we manifest in the highest form/ energetic fashion that we can understand to guide us to ascension back to that single source.

I captured these images of a twin flame phenomenon in 2012. This candle and another one like it, two nights in a row burned for over an hour flickering high a low until they finally split in two and burned another hour until I was tired and sleepy.  Each night this happened I walk over to the flame to snuff it out and when I reached about 2 feet from them they went out by themselves. This is the mystery that I love in my work as psychic medium and what keeps me working with others to help them understand the mystery that surrounds us all.

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In Light & Love